ABOUT ME AND THE PROGRAM

Hey you beautiful heart and soul! If you didn’t guess, my name is Matthew, and I have had my fair share of relationships: some amazing, and some… well… I’d like to say they were all learning experiences.

Some of those experiences were extremely difficult for me, but one breakup in particular stands out as a world-shattering, unimaginably painful experience. There was dishonesty and betrayal, followed by being blocked on all levels (often known as an Avoidant Discard combined with blocking).

There were days I honestly didn’t know if I was going to make it: questioning everything, navigating the ups and downs of grief as they came in powerful waves. Some moments felt unbearable. But somewhere within all of that pain, I kept telling myself that this experience had to be here to teach me something. That maybe this pain, as horrible as it was, was also an opportunity.

I realized that the only way to truly overcome it was to go through it fully: not around it, not by avoiding it, but by allowing myself to feel, process, reflect, and eventually integrate the experience into who I was becoming. I wanted to come out the other side not only alive, but stronger, wiser, and more connected to myself.

During my breakup experience, I began reading extensively about areas of relationship dynamics that I didn’t even know existed. I dove headfirst into learning about attachment styles, emotional regulation, relationship dynamics, and the psychology behind certain relationship behaviours.

And through all of that learning, I discovered something that at first I could barely comprehend: someone can genuinely love you deeply and feel a real connection with you, while still not having the emotional capacity to hold and sustain the relationship they desire. That realization changed everything for me.

But over time, and through many difficult lessons, I learned the most valuable one of all: my value as a person and as a potential partner is not determined by someone else’s capacity to maintain a relationship, nor is it defined by whether a relationship succeeds or fails.

And through all of this painful experience, I wanted to do what I love most: share. I wanted to create something that could help other people who are going through similar experiences and emotions.

So I took all of my notes, journals, reflections, and everything I had learned throughout my healing journey, and I created The Breakup Reset platform.

What I personally found during my healing process was that many breakup programs and apps either lacked a clear direction or provided very generic information that didn’t feel specific or relevant to my situation. There was very little that felt truly guided, personal, or structured in a way that helped me move through the experience step by step.

So I created this platform to be exactly that: a simple, fully guided process where you move through your healing journey alongside an AI companion that I personally programmed — not to give advice or tell you what to think, but to ask specific questions designed to trigger self-reflection, emotional awareness, and personal growth.

The combination of a guided structure, intentional self-reflection, and personalized feedback allows the healing process to feel uniquely tailored to your specific breakup experience. It also helps prevent that feeling of becoming overwhelmed, lost, or “falling off the path” from being flooded with too much irrelevant information all at once.

And so, here it is: not a promise to completely overcome your breakup in 14 days, and not a replacement for traditional therapy, but rather a powerful self-reflection tool designed to help you safely and thoughtfully process your experience, while building a meaningful post-breakup recovery plan that turns healing into genuine personal transformation.